There are some pretty good answers here, but you pretty much answered your own question when you said that you were trying to make things happen.
IMHO, poker is not a game that you can force, once you start trying to force it, you’re asking to get felted slowly and painfully.
One guy said to use the time watching the other players and picking up their ranges ect. That is a pretty good idea as you are learning as you go. 2nd, what table image do you have? if you’re coming across as a tight player, look for spots to bluff out small pots. of course you have to set these spots up by raising or 3 betting pre, but stop playing your cards and play a bit of poker every now and then.
All in all, if you’re not feeling it, walk away with your $$ in hand and live to play another day
GL for your next game.